To love and be loved back by your partner is a good thing and being in a happy relationship makes it more better and more fun. Today we will be discussing about the various qualities of love one should enjoy while in a relationship or as a married couple. Love means many things to many people Before proceeding to the qualities, love as the key to every relationship is defined as an intense feeling of affection and care towards another person. It is also said to be a strong feeling of affection and concern for another person accompanied by sexual attraction. The qualities of love are; 1. Love is not arrogant or rude 2. Love is patient and kind 3. Love endures, bears.hope and believe all things 4. Love does not rejoice at wrong but rejoices in the right 5. Love does not insist on its own way 6. Love is not jealous or boastful.
Supposedly, heartbreak happens to everyone. Most times, we have little or no control over it. As feeble as the heart is, it has that pull that we can't resist no matter how hard we try. So, the following are rules to follow if you don't want a heartbreak in your relationship or to reduce it drastically
⧐ *Love with your heart but think with your brain*
This can save you a whole lot of heartache. When you love, make sure that you enjoy it. Love fully because that is the only way to enjoy the feeling. However, as interaction continues, use your brain. Your emotional intelligence/instinct has a big role to play. Your heart has no eyes, but your brain is connected to two eyes. Use the brain to know if you are loved or not. It will save you a lot of recovery or getting over time. Immediately the relationship got activated, your psychological instinct should kick start work simultaneously and never be blinded by love illusions neglecting red flags
⧐ *Communicate*
Communication is underrated and underappreciated. Knowing what you want exactly and being able to communicate it to your partner well can be the difference between an amazing and fulfilling relationship and a sour and regretful one. Talk to him/her. You like something, say it. You don't like something, say it. Don't keep it inside. When you keep it within, it festers, then resentment starts to build. Heartbreak becomes a step away. Don't assume your partner will change probably when you got married. What you won't condone when you get rich should adequately be kicked against when you are still striving towards being a wealthy fellow.
⧐ *Quit the drama*
Drama has a way of spicing up a relationship. However, the more drama, the more frustrated the relationship becomes. If all your partner expects from you is drama, then you are in the heartbreak zone. Everyone wants peace of mind. If you are not an oasis of peace, you put yourself in a precarious situation. And it could be very dangerous for you.
⧐ *Don't expect too much*
Some people say that no one expects too much, that you have only not met the right person. It's a lie. You can expect too much. That you do something for someone doesn't mean the person has to do the same for you. Don't have that mindset of entitlement. It won't do you any good. It would only make it easier for the person to shatter you. If you do anything, do it because you love that person. But, that does not mean that you would take crumbs and be satisfied. If your partner isn't doing up to scratch, run!
Hannah Oyelere
I agree with you on this
ReplyDeleteCorrect tori keep it up ☺️☺️
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely correct!
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