To love and be loved back by your partner is a good thing  and being in a happy  relationship makes it more better and more fun. Today we will be discussing about the various qualities of love one should enjoy while in a relationship or as a married couple. Love means many things to many people  Before proceeding to the qualities, love as the key to every relationship is defined as an intense feeling of affection and care towards another person. It is also said to be a strong feeling of affection and concern for another person accompanied by sexual attraction. The qualities of love are;  1. Love is not arrogant or rude 2. Love is patient and kind 3. Love endures, bears.hope and believe all things 4. Love does not rejoice at wrong but rejoices in the right 5. Love does not insist on its own way 6. Love is not jealous or boastful.

1. Communicate Often: Communication is the key to a long lasting relationship.use any available Communication technology to keep in touch with each other as often as possible..you can't make use of any social media platform such as Skype, Whatsapp, Facebook, etc to communicate often. 2. Trust: Trusting each other is what will keep the love going. Let your partner know your schedules over there. Let your partner knows everything about you,what you are capable of doing and not capable 3. Grow yourself: Do not remain stagnant engage yourself with will benefit you,you can venture into a business,enroll in a course etc..Do not be idle,take this time to build yourself, just as your partner is away advancing himself / herself at work or study so that the two can have a bright future. 4. Have a common vision: Talk about the future,where eyou both are heading to,why you need each other,it gives each other a hope to hold on to 5. Know the time frame: know how many months or years he or she w...

Supposedly, heartbreak happens to everyone. Most times, we have little or no control over it. As feeble as the heart is, it has that pull that we can't resist no matter how hard we try. So, the following are rules to follow if you don't want a heartbreak in your relationship or to reduce it drastically  ⧐ *Love with your heart but think with your brain* This can save you a whole lot of heartache. When you love, make sure that you enjoy it. Love fully because that is the only way to enjoy the feeling. However, as interaction continues, use your brain. Your emotional intelligence/instinct has a big role to play. Your heart has no eyes, but your brain is connected to two eyes. Use the brain to know if you are loved or not. It will save you a lot of recovery or getting over time. Immediately the relationship got activated, your psychological instinct should kick start work simultaneously and never be blinded by love illusions neglecting red flags  ⧐ *Communicate* Communication is ...

"He is not my Spec." "She is not my Type "Bola is accommodating, Godly and decent. But, she has a K-leg." "Funmi has a lovely physical features. She is outspoken. But, she is overambitious. The babe no go submit." "Nkech is beautiful and a great cook. But, she is short." Well done ooo... Mr Creator of women.🙄 "Chinedu is a family-oriented man. He is caring but, can't construct a simple sentence in English." "Bayo is cute and God loving. He is even outspoken and exposed. But, he can't pray for 5hours at a stretch. He doesn't attend vigils and camp meetings. "Boye is my dream man. He has everything I desire in a man. But, he lacks a good dress sense and has a body odour." Well done ma. The Maker of perfect men.🙄 All these shouting of he is not my spec. She is not my type. Na eem make Mr Joshua remained single until he clocked 40years. Sis Nkechi never see her spec at 38years. Is it a sin to have a Spec? N...

Okay guys today we will be talking about gaslighting in relationships and marriages. Am sure many of you will be asking what do I mean by gaslighting in a relationship? Well, when I say gaslighting, I don't mean light produced by burning pipe illuminating gas or a lamp which operates by burning gas.  Gaslighting in a relationship/ marriage simply means; a form of sustained psychological manipulation that causes the victim to question or doubt their sanity, judgment, and memories. Since you now know what gaslighting is all about. The next question on your mind should be how do I know if I am in a gaslighted relationship or marriage with a gaslihter?  Here are few signs to help you know if you are being gaslighted in your relationship or not. # They make you question your perception of reality: # They persistently and blatantly lie to you: # They make you feel insecure by breaking you down: # They lie about saying something When you have Proof # They try to separate You from ...

Photo credit Google  BY MUTHOLIB ISA.A When she asks you...... 1. Can I call you anytime?She's simply means - Are you married? 2. Can you drive?- She is asking "Do you have a car? 3. Someone is asking for my hands in marriage.... - She is asking " When are you coming to see my parents. 4. I hope someone won't break my head ooo ?- she's asking "if you have a girlfriend. 5. Am using free mode - It means "can you send me data? 6. I want you to love me for who I am? - She doesn't love sharing. 7. Do you stay in your family house? - She's asking if you stay alone. 8. Can you date without sex? - she's want to know if you love sex too much . 9. Sweetheart, my girlfriend has a just been taken! - She wants to know your reaction about marriage. 10. I hate you joor.... - She just want you to tell her "I love you so much. 11. If she stops calling.... -She wants to know how serious you are. 12. My Normal visitor - She's in her period. 13. Why do ...

Stop wasting time with the wrong person, you call them but they don’t pick up, they saw your missed calls but they don’t call back, you text them but they never reply to any of your messages.. You always have time for them but they are ever so busy for you, you want to meet them and have some mature talks with them but they are full of excuses, you do everything possible to make them happy but they don’t appreciate your effort.. You introduced them to your friends and family but they have never introduced you to any important person in their life, you are so proud of them but they aren’t proud of you, you truly love them but you aren’t sure if they love you because they don’t show it.. You want to spend your future with them but they don’t like to talk about future plans, you are doing everything you can to make the relationship work but they do all their best to make it end. Then why are you with them? Why are you wasting your time and energy on them?  Honestly you deserve someone...

1) GIVE YOUR EX HOLY SPACE  2 People you should not be too careless around: The Ex that still loves You. The Ex you still love. To Avoid "I don't know how it happened?"  Tha ex that keeps sending you flirty messages, showing up where you are, when your partner is not around.  He or she will tell you different things. "I just want us to hang out, nothing will happen". Lori Iro "I won't bite, just a peck, for old times sake". Lori Iro Run oh.... Before your X becomes Y your Relationship or Marriage crashed. 2) AVOID "BESTIE" OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER Your Partner is alive, breathing and kicking, you're doing bestie with somebody else from the opposite gender, your Fiance/fiancee/Husband/Wife is not bestie material? You are looking for trouble. "He's just my Prayer Partner." Oshei oh, Prayer Panther.  "She's just my Confidant"  "We are just hangout buddies."  Egungun be kaiful.. ...

By Abraham Esther O. 1. Is the person teachable: Pay attention on how the person handles correction, does he or she gets angry when corrected,does he or she accepts correction. Marriage requires a lot of learning, unlearning and relearning. 2.How do they act when they are angry:Does the person becomes violent, insulting,rude when angry.Does anger controls the person that makes him or her not to be aware of what he or she is doing at that particular point on time. How a person control anger or how anger control a person determine if such person is ready for marriage or the person needs no help 3. When they get over excited over the opposite sometimes forgetting that you exist. Someone that is in a relationship but act like single and always deny to be in a relationship. 4.How they act when you can't give time: If there are moments you can answer the person's call because you are in a meeting,function or you can't reply immediately to their message,but you get back to them wh...

By Abraham Esther.O In our society today, a person in a relationship is afraid to run because of what people will say at the expense of his or her joy,peace,freedom,dreams,careers and  life. Being in a relationship is not a do or die afair, you don't go into a relationship because you pity the person, or because of what people will say, if as a man or a lady you experience any domestic abuse either verbal abuse, emotional abuse, mental abuse or financial abus: Abuse is abuse, run fast once it takes away your peace or makes you feel lesser of a person, run fast.         Any man or woman that abuses his or her spouse is capable of taking the person's life. Such  a person could be suffering from mental, it could be frustrated, or jealous, or could be on hard drugs . As a lady, once a man hits you while in relationship he will surely hit you harder in marriage, so run fast before it lands you in death. Stay connected for more post on single connect relatio...

By Christiana SWEET WAYS TO SAY SORRY TO YOUR PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP ; Recognizing your wrongs, feeling sorry for them and gathering the courage to apologize to your partner in a relationship is sometimes difficult due to ego and pride. In other for you to have a healthy and stronger relationship, you must learn to use this key word I AM SORRY more often because it has a way of rebuilding and healing all forms of heart aches in  every relationship either dating, courting or marriage which is the highest of it all. Here are some romantic ways of saying am sorry to your loved ones:  * Buy them something they’ve always wanted for a long time.  * Record a little voice note using their favorite song. * Order their favorite food to their office and attach a note on it. * Get an "I’m sorry" T-shirt and wear it around them all day long. * Secretly put "I’m sorry and I won't stop until you accept my apology" notes in your loved one's pocket, laptop bag, car mirror...

By Hannah Oyelere In our society today, most people has lost their Identity because of the pressure on them and what they see on social media. Believing the norms and what is on social media can define their purpose. Imagine a young girl who is at the age of 15 believes if she does not have a boyfriend she cannot meet up with standards or mingle among peers, which makes many feel she feels inferior. As a youth while been single, it is an avenue to work on yourself add value to your life. Funny enough in our generation today nobody wants liability wether a man or a woman. Do not let anyone put you on pressure or make you feel inferior instead attain your goals add value to your life,focus and make achievements.

By Mutholib Isa.A Relationship Skills: The ability to establish and maintain healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals and groups. This includes communicating clearly, listening actively, cooperating, resisting inappropriate social pressure, negotiating conflict constructively, and seeking and offering help when needed. Relationship skills are critical to success in life and work. Having the ability to establish and maintain healthy relationships, communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, resist peer pressure, and collaborate are essential in all human interaction. These skills are fundamental to success in school and in work. Overall, conflict should be framed as a healthy indicator of democratic society and inclusive school community. To teach about handling conflict, educators can center conflict as a learning opportunity; center the assets and needs of all in the school community in examining conflict and be responsive to the presence of language, cultu...

Dauda Ganiyat Adejoke 2507 Clearly, some people are single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the circumstances of their lives. They may have just gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated relentlessly and just haven’t found someone with whom they’re truly compatible.  The point of this article isn’t to stereotype all  single women or men or to put anyone in a box. However, for people, particularly those over 30, who are looking for answers to the puzzling question “why am I still single?”, here are some unconventional answers that lie within. When it comes to dating and relationships, it’s hard not to feel that you are a victim. After all, others can be cruel; you will get hurt, and no, it isn’t always your fault. But the reality is that we hold more power over our romantic destiny than we often think. To a great degree, we create the world we live i...

By: Nnamani Christiana Philomena People who are in love normally sort ways on how to improve their love life and at the same time make the relationship in which they are into more fun and memorable. It is  often said that "love is a good thing" especially when you are in love with the right person although most times we can't choose those we fall in love with as it sometimes happens in a most strange manner. Now here are some ways in which you as a man or woman who is either married or in a serious relationship can use to improve your love 1)Give each other pet names: as a man in a relationship giving your lady a pet name which no one else can call her will go a long way in making her head swell any time she is around you and she will always feel happy anytime she is around you. Names like my gold, my heart beat, my all etc and whenever you call her such names let it be from within and always mean what you say. So also for the ladies call you lover pet names that will giv...

By Abraham Esther Oshioema      You are squatting with your friend in Mushin,but told your partner you are living in a two bedroom apartment in Lekki. That is lying not packaging.     You claimed you graduated with a first class whereas you left school with a pass that's not packaging that's lying,you claimed you work in a bank whereas you are operating a POS shop, is POS a bank?   Packaging with an intentional motive to pass the wrong message to someone is lying.   You do make ups to cover tribal marks in a relationship of three years,and your fiance doesn’t know you have tribal marks that's not packaging that's lying. You wear fake hips, buttocks,your innocent partner on the other hand thinks it’s your natural body shape,that he can't wait for the wedding (he go shock am)aunty thats not packaging it is lying. Ladies and Gentlemen    There is nothing wrong in packaging yourself and looking good,there is nothing bad in excellence and cla...

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