To love and be loved back by your partner is a good thing  and being in a happy  relationship makes it more better and more fun. Today we will be discussing about the various qualities of love one should enjoy while in a relationship or as a married couple. Love means many things to many people  Before proceeding to the qualities, love as the key to every relationship is defined as an intense feeling of affection and care towards another person. It is also said to be a strong feeling of affection and concern for another person accompanied by sexual attraction. The qualities of love are;  1. Love is not arrogant or rude 2. Love is patient and kind 3. Love endures, bears.hope and believe all things 4. Love does not rejoice at wrong but rejoices in the right 5. Love does not insist on its own way 6. Love is not jealous or boastful.

1. Communicate Often: Communication is the key to a long lasting relationship.use any available Communication technology to keep in touch with each other as often as possible..you can't make use of any social media platform such as Skype, Whatsapp, Facebook, etc to communicate often. 2. Trust: Trusting each other is what will keep the love going. Let your partner know your schedules over there. Let your partner knows everything about you,what you are capable of doing and not capable 3. Grow yourself: Do not remain stagnant engage yourself with will benefit you,you can venture into a business,enroll in a course etc..Do not be idle,take this time to build yourself, just as your partner is away advancing himself / herself at work or study so that the two can have a bright future. 4. Have a common vision: Talk about the future,where eyou both are heading to,why you need each other,it gives each other a hope to hold on to 5. Know the time frame: know how many months or years he or she w...

Supposedly, heartbreak happens to everyone. Most times, we have little or no control over it. As feeble as the heart is, it has that pull that we can't resist no matter how hard we try. So, the following are rules to follow if you don't want a heartbreak in your relationship or to reduce it drastically  ⧐ *Love with your heart but think with your brain* This can save you a whole lot of heartache. When you love, make sure that you enjoy it. Love fully because that is the only way to enjoy the feeling. However, as interaction continues, use your brain. Your emotional intelligence/instinct has a big role to play. Your heart has no eyes, but your brain is connected to two eyes. Use the brain to know if you are loved or not. It will save you a lot of recovery or getting over time. Immediately the relationship got activated, your psychological instinct should kick start work simultaneously and never be blinded by love illusions neglecting red flags  ⧐ *Communicate* Communication is ...

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Okay guys today we will be talking about gaslighting in relationships and marriages. Am sure many of you will be asking what do I mean by gaslighting in a relationship? Well, when I say gaslighting, I don't mean light produced by burning pipe illuminating gas or a lamp which operates by burning gas.  Gaslighting in a relationship/ marriage simply means; a form of sustained psychological manipulation that causes the victim to question or doubt their sanity, judgment, and memories. Since you now know what gaslighting is all about. The next question on your mind should be how do I know if I am in a gaslighted relationship or marriage with a gaslihter?  Here are few signs to help you know if you are being gaslighted in your relationship or not. # They make you question your perception of reality: # They persistently and blatantly lie to you: # They make you feel insecure by breaking you down: # They lie about saying something When you have Proof # They try to separate You from ...