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QUALITIES OF LOVE IN A RELATIONSHIP

 To love and be loved back by your partner is a good thing  and being in a happy  relationship makes it more better and more fun. Today we will be discussing about the various qualities of love one should enjoy while in a relationship or as a married couple. Love means many things to many people  Before proceeding to the qualities, love as the key to every relationship is defined as an intense feeling of affection and care towards another person. It is also said to be a strong feeling of affection and concern for another person accompanied by sexual attraction. The qualities of love are;  1. Love is not arrogant or rude 2. Love is patient and kind 3. Love endures, bears.hope and believe all things 4. Love does not rejoice at wrong but rejoices in the right 5. Love does not insist on its own way 6. Love is not jealous or boastful.

IN A RELATIONSHIP/ MARRIED: DO THESE TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH

1) GIVE YOUR EX HOLY SPACE  2 People you should not be too careless around: The Ex that still loves You. The Ex you still love. To Avoid "I don't know how it happened?"  Tha ex that keeps sending you flirty messages, showing up where you are, when your partner is not around.  He or she will tell you different things. "I just want us to hang out, nothing will happen". Lori Iro "I won't bite, just a peck, for old times sake". Lori Iro Run oh.... Before your X becomes Y your Relationship or Marriage crashed. 2) AVOID "BESTIE" OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER Your Partner is alive, breathing and kicking, you're doing bestie with somebody else from the opposite gender, your Fiance/fiancee/Husband/Wife is not bestie material? You are looking for trouble. "He's just my Prayer Partner." Oshei oh, Prayer Panther.  "She's just my Confidant"  "We are just hangout buddies."  Egungun be kaiful.. ...

Relationship update: Things to pay attention to before getting married

By Abraham Esther O. 1. Is the person teachable: Pay attention on how the person handles correction, does he or she gets angry when corrected,does he or she accepts correction. Marriage requires a lot of learning, unlearning and relearning. 2.How do they act when they are angry:Does the person becomes violent, insulting,rude when angry.Does anger controls the person that makes him or her not to be aware of what he or she is doing at that particular point on time. How a person control anger or how anger control a person determine if such person is ready for marriage or the person needs no help 3. When they get over excited over the opposite sometimes forgetting that you exist. Someone that is in a relationship but act like single and always deny to be in a relationship. 4.How they act when you can't give time: If there are moments you can answer the person's call because you are in a meeting,function or you can't reply immediately to their message,but you get back to them wh...

RUN IF YOU EXPERIENCE ANY OF THESE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

By Abraham Esther.O In our society today, a person in a relationship is afraid to run because of what people will say at the expense of his or her joy,peace,freedom,dreams,careers and  life. Being in a relationship is not a do or die afair, you don't go into a relationship because you pity the person, or because of what people will say, if as a man or a lady you experience any domestic abuse either verbal abuse, emotional abuse, mental abuse or financial abus: Abuse is abuse, run fast once it takes away your peace or makes you feel lesser of a person, run fast.         Any man or woman that abuses his or her spouse is capable of taking the person's life. Such  a person could be suffering from mental, it could be frustrated, or jealous, or could be on hard drugs . As a lady, once a man hits you while in relationship he will surely hit you harder in marriage, so run fast before it lands you in death. Stay connected for more post on single connect relatio...

I'M SORRY : THE KEY WORD THAT GROWS RELATIONSHIP

By Christiana SWEET WAYS TO SAY SORRY TO YOUR PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP ; Recognizing your wrongs, feeling sorry for them and gathering the courage to apologize to your partner in a relationship is sometimes difficult due to ego and pride. In other for you to have a healthy and stronger relationship, you must learn to use this key word I AM SORRY more often because it has a way of rebuilding and healing all forms of heart aches in  every relationship either dating, courting or marriage which is the highest of it all. Here are some romantic ways of saying am sorry to your loved ones:  * Buy them something they’ve always wanted for a long time.  * Record a little voice note using their favorite song. * Order their favorite food to their office and attach a note on it. * Get an "I’m sorry" T-shirt and wear it around them all day long. * Secretly put "I’m sorry and I won't stop until you accept my apology" notes in your loved one's pocket, laptop bag, car mirror...

IS SINGLENESS A BARRIER? 🚧🚧🚧🚧

By Hannah Oyelere In our society today, most people has lost their Identity because of the pressure on them and what they see on social media. Believing the norms and what is on social media can define their purpose. Imagine a young girl who is at the age of 15 believes if she does not have a boyfriend she cannot meet up with standards or mingle among peers, which makes many feel she feels inferior. As a youth while been single, it is an avenue to work on yourself add value to your life. Funny enough in our generation today nobody wants liability wether a man or a woman. Do not let anyone put you on pressure or make you feel inferior instead attain your goals add value to your life,focus and make achievements.

RELATIONSHIP SKILLS :WHAT YOU CAN DO TO ARREST YOUR FIANCE ATTENTION.

By Mutholib Isa.A Relationship Skills: The ability to establish and maintain healthy and rewarding relationships with diverse individuals and groups. This includes communicating clearly, listening actively, cooperating, resisting inappropriate social pressure, negotiating conflict constructively, and seeking and offering help when needed. Relationship skills are critical to success in life and work. Having the ability to establish and maintain healthy relationships, communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, resist peer pressure, and collaborate are essential in all human interaction. These skills are fundamental to success in school and in work. Overall, conflict should be framed as a healthy indicator of democratic society and inclusive school community. To teach about handling conflict, educators can center conflict as a learning opportunity; center the assets and needs of all in the school community in examining conflict and be responsive to the presence of language, cultu...

WHY AM I STILL SINGLE?

Dauda Ganiyat Adejoke 2507 Clearly, some people are single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the circumstances of their lives. They may have just gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated relentlessly and just haven’t found someone with whom they’re truly compatible.  The point of this article isn’t to stereotype all  single women or men or to put anyone in a box. However, for people, particularly those over 30, who are looking for answers to the puzzling question “why am I still single?”, here are some unconventional answers that lie within. When it comes to dating and relationships, it’s hard not to feel that you are a victim. After all, others can be cruel; you will get hurt, and no, it isn’t always your fault. But the reality is that we hold more power over our romantic destiny than we often think. To a great degree, we create the world we live i...